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The Difference Between Coaching & Counseling

Counseling is a licensed mental‑health service that involves assessment, diagnosis, and treatment within an established scope of practice. It is designed to support individuals whose experiences, symptoms, or functional changes meet criteria for a mental‑health diagnosis or require clinically informed intervention. Counseling provides a structured, evidence‑based environment where clients can explore emotional distress, integrate past experiences, and develop strategies for stabilization and long‑term psychological health.

Counseling is appropriate when someone needs diagnostic clarity, clinically guided support, or a treatment plan that aligns with professional standards of care.


Coaching is a collaborative, future‑oriented process designed to help you clarify what matters most, make aligned choices, and step into the next chapter of your life with intention. Rather than focusing on diagnosis or clinical treatment, coaching centers on your values, agency, and emerging identity. It is especially supportive when you’re standing at a threshold—no longer who you were, not yet who you’re becoming—and you want guidance in navigating that transition with purpose.

Coaching invites you to explore meaning, direction, and possibility. Together, we examine the questions that shape a life: What do I want to carry forward? What needs to be released? What is calling me now? Through structured inquiry, existential reflection, and practical action steps, coaching helps you move from insight into movement, from uncertainty into orientation, and from transition into intentional becoming.

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Services

Counseling

Grief Coaching

Grief Coaching

As a licensed professional counselor, I mostly work with people navigating post–critical incident stress, grief, end-of-life matters, moral injury, depression, and anxiety. 


My work blends,


 clinical skill with genuine human connection, helping clients make sense of overwhelming experiences and reconnect with their own inner steadiness. 

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As a licensed professional counselor, I mostly work with people navigating post–critical incident stress, grief, end-of-life matters, moral injury, depression, and anxiety. 


My work blends,


 clinical skill with genuine human connection, helping clients make sense of overwhelming experiences and reconnect with their own inner steadiness. 

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supporting individuals in understanding what they’re feeling, why it matters, and how to move toward healing in a way that honors their pace and their story.


My approach is shaped by advanced training in somatic work, mind–body practices, narrative therapy, EMDR, dreamwork, meaning reconstruction, suicide pre‑ and post‑vention, and existential counseling. 


These modalities allow me to meet clients at multiple levels—physiological, emotional, cognitive, and existential—so we can work with both the symptoms and the deeper layers of meaning beneath them.


Therapeutic Stance


My therapeutic stance is grounded, relational, and deeply respectful of the human experience. I work from a non‑pathologizing, meaning‑centered perspective that honors your autonomy, your pace, and your lived wisdom. 


Counseling with me is a collaborative process—one where we explore your story, your nervous system, your beliefs, and the deeper layers of meaning that shape how you move through the world.


My stance is gentle but honest, spacious but structured, and always oriented toward supporting your sense of agency and wholeness.


In session, you can expect:


Warm, relational connection — a sense of being met, not analyzed.


Steady, compassionate attention — space to speak freely without judgment or pressure.


Collaborative pacing — we move at a rhythm that feels safe and sustainable for you.


Mind–body awareness — gentle invitations to notice what your body is holding or signaling.


Meaning‑centered exploration — curiosity about how your experiences shape identity, purpose, and direction.


Respect for your autonomy — you choose what we explore, how deep we go, and what feels right.


My goal is for you to feel supported, understood, and empowered, not rushed or overwhelmed. 

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to offer a place where your story is honored, your pace is respected, and healing unfolds in a way that feels authentic to who you are. 



Grief Coaching

Grief Coaching

Grief Coaching

As a grief coach and death midwife, I support people as they learn to live in a world that has changed. Grief coaching is not therapy—it is a compassionate, forward‑moving partnership that helps you make meaning, find steadiness, and reconnect with who you are becoming after loss. 


As a death midwife, I also walk with individuals and famil

As a grief coach and death midwife, I support people as they learn to live in a world that has changed. Grief coaching is not therapy—it is a compassionate, forward‑moving partnership that helps you make meaning, find steadiness, and reconnect with who you are becoming after loss. 


As a death midwife, I also walk with individuals and families through the emotional, spiritual, and practical terrain of end‑of‑life experiences, offering calm orientation and grounded companionship during times that can feel overwhelming or uncertain.


I offer a non‑clinical, deeply human space where you can explore your story, honor what has been lost, and gently rebuild the parts of life that feel tender or undone. My approach blends attunement, curiosity, and practical support. 


Together, we clarify what you need, strengthen your inner resources, and create pathways toward living with grief in a way that feels honest, sustainable, and aligned with your values.


Whether you are grieving a person, preparing for an anticipated loss, navigating end‑of‑life decisions, or trying to find your footing after everything has changed, grief coaching and death midwifery support offer companionship and orientation as you move through what comes next.

Grief Rituals

Grief Coaching

Grief Rituals

Grief rituals offer a way to honor what has changed, acknowledge what hurts, and create space for meaning to emerge. I guide individuals, families, organizations, and those who are dying through rituals that bring grounding, clarity, and connection during times of loss, transition, or collective impact.


For individuals, grief rituals creat

Grief rituals offer a way to honor what has changed, acknowledge what hurts, and create space for meaning to emerge. I guide individuals, families, organizations, and those who are dying through rituals that bring grounding, clarity, and connection during times of loss, transition, or collective impact.


For individuals, grief rituals create a gentle container to name what you’re carrying, reconnect with your inner resources, and mark the moments that feel too big to hold alone. These rituals help you slow down, honor your story, and find a sense of orientation as you move forward.


For families, rituals offer a shared space to remember, express, and witness one another with compassion. They support families in navigating different grieving styles, strengthening bonds, and creating meaningful ways to honor a loved one or a major life transition.


For organizations, grief rituals help teams acknowledge loss, burnout, critical incidents, or collective strain. These rituals foster psychological safety, restore a sense of community, and support a culture where grief is met with dignity rather than silence. They help workplaces move through difficult moments with clarity, compassion, and shared purpose.


For those who are dying, rituals offer comfort, orientation, and a sense of sacredness during the final stages of life. These practices may include legacy‑building, life‑review, symbolic acts of release, or quiet moments of connection with loved ones. Rituals at the end of life help individuals feel witnessed, supported, and held as they cross a profound threshold. 


Across all settings, grief‑ritual work blends collaboration, cultural sensitivity, and a profound respect for the human need to mark thresholds. 


Rituals do not fix grief—they honor it, give it shape, and help people and communities move through change with steadiness and connection.

Groups

Organizational Grief Consulting

Grief Rituals

 Grief groups that offer connection, understanding, and shared strength for people navigating some of the most complex forms of loss. These groups create a compassionate space where participants can speak openly, feel witnessed, and find community with others who understand experiences that are often isolating or misunderstood.


For those g

 Grief groups that offer connection, understanding, and shared strength for people navigating some of the most complex forms of loss. These groups create a compassionate space where participants can speak openly, feel witnessed, and find community with others who understand experiences that are often isolating or misunderstood.


For those grieving a suicide loss, groups provide a place to explore the layers of shock, guilt, anger, and love that accompany this kind of bereavement. Participants are met with care, honesty, and a community that recognizes the unique contours of suicide grief.


For medically fragile families, groups offer support for the ongoing uncertainty, anticipatory grief, and emotional exhaustion that come with caring for a loved one whose health is fragile or declining. These spaces help families feel less alone and more grounded as they navigate shifting roles and constant unknowns.


For individuals experiencing disenfranchised grief, groups create room for losses that society often overlooks—losses that may not be publicly acknowledged, validated, or understood. Here, every story is honored, and every form of grief is given the dignity it deserves.


For those living with ambiguous loss, groups help participants hold the tension of loving someone who is physically present but psychologically changed, or someone who is physically absent but still deeply felt. These groups offer language, companionship, and gentle structure for navigating a loss that has no clear ending.


 Group work offers connection, meaning‑making, and the reminder that healing is not something we do alone.

Organizational Grief Consulting

Organizational Grief Consulting

Organizational Grief Consulting

Organizations feel grief too—through critical incidents, staff losses, burnout, role changes, and the quiet accumulations of stress that shape a workplace over time. 


My organizational grief consulting helps teams, leaders, and systems respond to these moments with clarity compassion, and skill through, 


Support in building grief‑literate c

Organizations feel grief too—through critical incidents, staff losses, burnout, role changes, and the quiet accumulations of stress that shape a workplace over time. 


My organizational grief consulting helps teams, leaders, and systems respond to these moments with clarity compassion, and skill through, 


Support in building grief‑literate cultures through a combination of group facilitation, policy development, ritual design, and staff education.


Facilitated group spaces where teams can acknowledge loss, process difficult events, and reconnect with one another after periods of strain or disruption. These groups help restore trust, reduce isolation, and strengthen a sense of shared purpose.


 Collaboration with leadership to review and develop policies and protocols that support employees through bereavement, critical incidents, and ongoing emotional impact. This includes guidance on communication practices, return‑to‑work pathways, and compassionate organizational responses.


Designing and leading organizational rituals that honor transitions, acknowledge collective grief, and create meaningful moments of connection. These rituals help teams mark what has happened, recognize what has changed, and move forward with steadiness.


Education and training that equips staff and leaders with the skills to navigate grief, trauma exposure, and emotional fatigue in the workplace. These sessions build confidence, reduce stigma, and foster environments where people feel supported rather than overwhelmed.


Grief consulting helps workplaces respond to loss with dignity, clarity, and care—strengthening both the people and the systems they rely on.

Training & Supervision

Organizational Grief Consulting

Organizational Grief Consulting


EMDRIA-approved training and consultation for clinicians seeking grounded, ethical, and trauma‑informed skill development.



 Specialized workshops on grief, traumatic loss, and post‑critical incident recovery. 


 First responder wellness trainings. 


LPCA individual and group supervision and consultation.



 My approach to training, supervision, a


EMDRIA-approved training and consultation for clinicians seeking grounded, ethical, and trauma‑informed skill development.



 Specialized workshops on grief, traumatic loss, and post‑critical incident recovery. 


 First responder wellness trainings. 


LPCA individual and group supervision and consultation.



 My approach to training, supervision, and consultation is grounded in collaboration rather than hierarchy. I don’t see myself as the expert who stands above others. 


These spaces are shared, reflective partnerships where individuals can think deeply, explore openly, and grow in ways that feel aligned with their values and identities.



About Terri Talley, Counselor, Thanatologist, & Coach

Background

Random Musing

Background

My work is shaped by more than two decades in the worlds of emergency medicine, trauma, grief, and end‑of‑life care.



 Before becoming a counselor, I served as a paramedic and an instructor in emergency medicine, training first responders in crisis stabilization, critical decision‑making, and compassionate care under pressure. 


Those years taught me how people respond to shock, loss, and uncertainty—and how deeply we all need steadiness, clarity, and connection in moments that alter the course of a life.



My academic path and love of academics deepened this work. I completed my PhD research in human sex trafficking, focusing on trauma, meaning‑making, and the biopsychosocial‑spiritual impacts on survivors. This research strengthened my commitment to survivor‑centered, non‑pathologizing care and continues to shape how I understand trauma, resilience, and the complexity of human suffering.



I hold ADEC certification in thanatology, a specialization that reflects advanced training in grief, bereavement, death education, and the ethics of end‑of‑life care. 


Specialized Trainings Include

  

EMDRIA Approved EMDR Provider, Consultant & Trainer  Death Midwifery

Psychological Autopsy

CAMS Provider & Consultant

Grief Reconstruction 

Grief for Suicide Bereavement

ASSSYT & Protocols for Ongoing Traumatic Stress

IADC Provider

Grief & Resiliency Coach

South Carolina Clinical Supervision Certification

Certified Clinical Military Counselor 

Certified Group Facilitator

Somatic Experiencing™

Existential Coaching

Treating Complex Death Grief & Bereavement 

Suicide Prevention and Intervention Trainer

Non-Death Loss Certification

Psychology of First Responders, 

Trauma Model, Colin Ross Institute

Pari & Pre-perinatal Trauma

Post Abortion Grief Recovery

Couples in Recovery, Gottman Institute

Grief, Death and Dying, Hospice of America

Existentialism in Psychotherapy

Somatic Art Therapy

Dream Work for PTSD

Trauma-Focused CBT

CBT-I

Trauma and Resiliency Certification

SMART™ Recovery Trainer & Facilitator

Friends & Family in Recovery Smart Recovery™

Biofeedback

HeartMath™ Institute Provider

AlphaStim Provider

Psychology of Refugee Resiliency


This background informs my work  as I accompany individuals families and organizations through their transitions.

Philosophy

Random Musing

Background

My philosophy of healing is rooted in the belief that people do not heal by erasing their pain—they heal by making meaning, reconnecting with their inner resources, and finding ways to live that feel aligned with who they are becoming.         


Healing is not linear, and it is never about “getting over” an experience. It is about integrating what has happened into a life that still holds depth, purpose, and possibility.


I see healing as a whole‑person process that unfolds across the body, mind, relationships, and the deeper layers of identity and spirit. The nervous system, the stories we tell, the meanings we make, and the connections we hold all shape how we move through suffering and how we find our way forward. 


   I believe people heal through:


  • Connection — being met with steadiness, compassion, and genuine human presence.


  • Choice and agency — reclaiming a sense of authorship over one’s life, even in the midst of uncertainty.


  • Mind–body integration — learning to listen to the body’s signals and respond with care rather than fear or avoidance.


  • Meaning reconstruction — exploring how loss, trauma, or transition reshapes identity and purpose.


  • Narrative clarity — understanding the stories we’ve inherited, the ones we’ve internalized, and the ones we are ready to rewrite.


  • Compassionate witnessing — being seen and understood without judgment or pressure.


  • Existential honesty — making space for the big questions: Who am I now? What matters? How do I live from here?



Healing is not about perfection or performance. It is about orientation, integration, and becoming. It is about learning to live with what has changed while still honoring what remains possible. 


My role is to walk with you—not to direct your path, but to help you see it more clearly, trust yourself more deeply, and move forward with steadiness and intention.

Random Musing

Random Musing

Random Musing

Fundamentally, I believe we cannot be all things to all people, which is why I keep my training, research, and services focused on what I am passionate about and what I believe in.

There are moments in life when something captures what you’ve carried as truth all along. One of those moments for me was encountering the quote:


“The human soul doesn’t want to be advised or fixed or saved. It simply wants to be witnessed—exactly as it is.”- Palmer


Across every chapter of my career — from the back of an ambulance to the research rooms to the therapy room, and in the sacred moments of sitting with people as they die — this has always been the heartbeat of my work.


Not fixing. Not rescuing.


But accompanying people into the places where we meet the deepest questions of meaning, identity, survival, and surrender. Bearing witness to the truth of a life exactly as it is, without rushing it, reshaping it, or turning away.


I believe we are all suffering from life’s paradoxes and, at the same time, are full of creativity, curiosity, and the desire for meaning, purpose, and belonging in this absurd world. We are fragile and resilient, grieving and becoming, breaking and mending — often all at once.


And in those liminal spaces, what we need most is not correction, but companionship; not solutions, but presence; not perfection, but the freedom to be seen in our full, contradictory humanity.


This is the work that has shaped me. This is the work that continues to call me. And this is the work I honor every time I sit with someone at the edge of what they can hold — or at the edge of life itself.

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